Artificial Intelligence (AI) is now part of everyday life, at home, in the classroom, and online. It brings real benefits, but it can also be misused, including by people who use it to make, manipulate or share nude, semi-nude or sexual images and videos of children. This is child sexual abuse material (CSAM) and, under EU law, is illegal, regardless of whether the image looks "real."
This guide is for two overlapping audiences:
Parents and carers, who play a frontline role in protecting their own children and talking to them about AI misuse.
School leaders and Designated Safeguarding Leads (DSLs), who are responsible for embedding this awareness into safeguarding policy, staff training, and the school's response when something goes wrong.
Hearing about this can feel alarming, whichever seat you're in. You are not alone, and there are concrete, manageable steps you can take. One of the strongest protective factors in a child's life is an informed adult, parent, carer, teacher or DSL, who knows how to respond calmly, appropriately and confidently when something goes wrong.
AI describes technology that can act in ways that would normally require human thinking or creativity, holding conversations, answering questions, and generating realistic images or video. It's already built into everyday tools: streaming platforms, social media, navigation apps, and increasingly, classroom software.
Images or videos don't need to depict sexual acts to count as child sexual abuse material, nude or semi-nude images of anyone under 18 qualify. AI-generated or AI-altered CSAM can include:
Manipulated real photos: ordinary images of a child (from social media, a school website, a messaging app) edited into sexualised or abusive imagery. Sometimes called "deepfakes."
Fully synthetic images: content that looks like a real child but was generated entirely by AI.
"Nudifying" tools: AI that digitally removes clothing from an existing photo to create a nude or semi-nude image.
Even when the imagery is stylised, cartoon, animated, not fully photorealistic, it is still illegal and can still cause real harm to the child depicted.
First and foremost: Do not put photos of your child online if you don't need to. This is the best strategy and limits access to you and you only.
Who has control?
Most platforms label privacy controls clearly under Settings, Privacy, Safety or Account. Making profiles private, or using a "close friends" list for photos of your child, limits who can see them. Internet Matters has a great platform-specific guidance if you want a walkthrough.
What's already there?
Look back through your own posts and ask: can my child's face, body or school uniform be identified? Am I still comfortable with this being public? Can it be deleted or made private? Check whether family or friends have posted images too, birthdays, school events, family gatherings, and raise it calmly if something doesn't sit right with you.
Is it age appropriate?
As children get older, involve them in the conversation about their own images, how they feel about photos being taken or shared, and that it's okay for them to say no. It's also worth revisiting consent forms you've signed for school or clubs: are you still comfortable with how those images might be used? Importantly, do they have an idea of how their image might be used if they post it online? It's a hard conversation, but a necessary one to protect them.
It's okay to set boundaries with other adults such as grandparents, aunts, uncles, best friends.
Most people respect a clear, friendly request once they understand it. Some starting points:
"We're being a bit more careful about what goes online for our kids, would you mind checking with us before posting anything?"
"We're keeping their photos out of public posts for now, could we stick to the group chat instead?"
"That's a lovely photo, but would you mind taking it down? We're keeping their images private at the moment, thanks for understanding."
Don't feel bad about the messages, if you were on the other side and recieved one of the above, it wouldn't seem out of the ordinary, in fact, it may spark some healthy further conversation on the topic.
You don't need to be an AI expert to have this conversation, it works best folded into the open, ongoing conversations you're already having, with a clear message that your child can come to you if something online worries them. Curiosity and calm listening build the trust that matters here.
Some conversation starters:
"Have you used AI at school or at home? What for, was it useful?" opens the door and finds out what they already know.
"Some AI tools can make or edit images and videos. Sometimes people misuse that to make fake or inappropriate content. What would you do if something online didn't feel right?"
"Have you heard of 'deepfakes'? Just because something looks real online doesn't mean it is."
"If this ever happened to you or someone you know, here's what you could do...", reassure them, and talk through the actual steps.
On image consent specifically:
"How do you decide when a picture's okay to share?"
"If someone shared a picture of you without asking, how would that feel?"
"What would you say if someone asked you to send or post something you weren't comfortable with?" — talk through options: changing the subject, using humour to deflect, saying how they feel, or just stepping away from the device.
"Someone might say editing pictures of others is 'just a joke.' What do you think?" — helps your child think about intent versus harm, without making it personal.
"Did you know nude or semi-nude images of under-18s — including ones made or altered with AI — can be reported and taken down?" Services like The EU Commision for CSA exist for exactly this.
This applies whether you're a parent, a carer, or a DSL supporting a family.
If a child has seen AI-generated abuse imagery, has had imagery created or manipulated of them, or is being blackmailed or threatened with it:
Reassure them they've done the right thing by telling you, that you'll help, and that they are not to blame.
If they're being blackmailed, they should stop contact and block the account immediately. If there's a financial demand, do not pay and if a payment has already been made, don't send more.
Don't ask to see the image yourself.
Preserve anything that could be evidence, messages, images, videos, profile details. Don't delete.
Report to police if there's immediate risk of harm.
Report to the platform where it happened
Report to a local or EU agency
Get emotional support for both the child and yourself, this kind of experience is stressful and can bring up shame or fear.
Schools sit at an important intersection here, they hold large volumes of children's photos (school trips, sports days, yearbooks, websites), they're often where peer-to-peer image misuse first surfaces, and staff are frequently the first adults a worried child confides in. A few practical steps for leadership teams:
Update safeguarding policy explicitly to cover AI-generated and AI-manipulated imagery, not just traditional online safety risks. Make clear this includes "nudifying" tools and deepfakes, and that stylised or non-photorealistic imagery is still in scope.
Build staff confidence, not just awareness. Staff should know the reporting pathway cold: who the DSL is, how to escalate, and that they should never view, forward, or ask to see the image themselves, even to verify a report.
Review your own image consent processes. Check what parents actually consented to for photos used on the school website, social media, prospectuses or yearbooks, and make it easy for families to update or withdraw that consent.
Build this into PSHE / digital literacy curriculum, using age-appropriate versions of the conversation starters above, so pupils hear consistent messaging from both school and home.
Know your reporting routes as an institution
Coordinate with parents proactively. Consider a short parent-facing communication (this guide can be adapted for that) ahead of any incident, so families aren't hearing about the risk for the first time in a crisis.
Marie Collins Foundation — support for children, young people and families affected by technology-assisted child sexual abuse.
TALK (IWF) — practical guide for parents/carers on online sexual abuse risks.
YoungMinds — mental health support for young people and parents.
Parent Zone — guidance on children's digital lives, including AI-specific resources.
NSPCC — advice on keeping children safe online and having difficult conversations.
CEOP Education (ceopeducation.co.uk) — free resources for professionals, parents/carers and under-18s.